my family ignores my birthday

 
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And I hide from relatives on my birthday...too much drama when we all get together lol.I have some experience with this, being 'it' in my family, which extended to my own children, from whom I may get an e-card.They are in their forties with children and I heard from them much more when they wanted me to babysit for weeks at a time.So this is what you do, ignore the ingrates, send THEM an e-card andconsider your duty done. I'm on my own with 2 dc and have had a very sad and depressing birthday today.

Give me a break. )To the folks who said I should organize my own party, I just never had the courage to do that.

Nothing wrong with celebrating yourself.

This year I turned 35 (yesterday actually) and the only card I got was from my boss. But i don't give a damn. Mainly because everyone completely ignored me and didn't acknowledge it being my birthday one bit. Then find people you do like at church or at a place where you are interested in common things, like a night class or an art class or a political organization, talk to people there ask them over for coffee afterward, make your own friends.Do what pleases you for your birthday, have a spa day ending at your favorite restaurant for your favorite meal. I did try to invite a couple married friends to dinner but they were married.

And to top it all off, my one brother's excuse this year was that he couldn't do dinner because he was too busy packing for a weekend lake trip which is wife disinvited me to. Yesterday, though, hubby brought me a gorgeous bouquet of roses and a card. I'm 18 but i don't care if my bday is ignored or not. Silence is louder than words. My brother (age 40) & his wife ignore my birthday every year and send me something about a month later, the same for my partner. That's a good question. What really made my day bad was the fact that my mom didn't call but then she turned around and called the following evening. Do something special for yourself. I still don't know why I was disinvited. All relationships take 2 to make it work and you find out who is interested in having a relationship with you. Yes, I feel brokenhearted, but my advice is to lower your expectations because you already know what they'll be doing for your next B-day. Yesterday if was my daughters 5th Birthday and that was ignored too - she is their only neice and they have no children of their own. And tomorrow we are celebrating with friends at Trader Vic's, a tiki restaurant in Atlanta. in all honesty it doesnt sound like any of them would organise a party but if you organise the celebration and let people know, all they have to do is keep the date free and turn up but to be honest all my friends have to be reminded of my bdayand i theirs. IRISHF There's a 13 year old saying she's too mature for birthday parties. Im married and and my mom lives 20 min away and even she forgot my b-day. If having your loved ones be cruel to you doesn't bother you then you aren't human. Has anyone else here been ignored on your birthday? I didn't want to appear pathetic. So this previous Sunday was my birthday. (He is twice divorced and recently went to jail for contempt for not removing his former wife from property deeds that he is delinquent on. Slowly all my friends got married over the years and I was left standing. Most years I get a lame phone call and nothing else.

The one person who cared died. The one person who cared died. When I was small my mum was a single parent and my grandparents always made sure we did something ncie for her birthday.

I have to choose to let go of what's not working and adjust myself to reality. They said it was because they didn't realize at the time they invited me that the block of rooms they had reserved with the others in the group were "full".

And lastly, the middle brother has forgotten most of the past 15 years and only sends a card when he is married and his wife gets the card. And by evening, my family had redeemed themselves, as I had known deep down they eventually would. In fact, my closest friends don't even remember my bday, only distant people do. HOWEVER, there have been recent birthdays where I just treat myself to a nice drink, a movie, and take the day off. My husband remembered. My birthday is four days before As a result I don't celebrate anyone else's birthday.

Be kind to you and remember.

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Just have your own private celebration and don't shame them. But no, nothing. It's hard enough making sure end meet and bills are paid, so I don't have time for the party nonsense.

If anything I am too nice and that is why I get dumped on by everybody because they know they can get away with it. They are being stupid about it really. But Im 35 and I have searched high and low and everyone I meet over 30 (male or female) is married with kids.

People think birthdays aren't a big deal until people stop remembering theirs. On my birthday even when I was far away, she always called a florist and bakery and made a fuss. i dont know where you live but there must be bars and nightlife? Any advice? His mommy never let the sun set on his big day. No dinner, cards, etc. My main birthday present was my Turbo Fire dvd set, which I got early and have been using for a month. I'm going to report that kid for being too young to be on yahoo answers.My B-day was last week and each year I get ignored by the same family members that I bake cakes and fix dinners for, so this year I plan to give them the same honor and respect. What your brother said about only married people deserving attention is totally ridiculous. At my age, it's not great to know I'm just another year older. Go to their parties put on the face of forgiveness and don't say a word.

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